Switching Clothing, Switching Identities
Uniformed children streamed out of the school building, the older girls wearing the thick, long sleeved, polo shirts favored by the administration because, unlike the
Hiding in the Closet as Iranian Missiles Fall
I’m trying to keep my kids safe. But in Palestinian areas there are no shelters, and my adolescent daughter refuses to hide in the closet.
Democracy for Some, Apartheid for Others
The Israeli army closed the city of Jericho on one of the busiest tourist days of the year. We spent hours waiting outside the checkpoint.
Is your mother one of those soldiers?
When my daughter said that I speak Hebrew, a girl in summer camp pantomimed firing a gun and asked, “Is your mother one of them?”
In Loving Memory of Tally Kritzman-Amir (May 7, 1979 – May 14, 2022)
Under different circumstances, I would have asked my wise friend Tally for advice on how to be a good friend to someone who is dying.
Looking for a School that Can Handle My Kids’ Identities
My children’s cousins in the Jabalia refugee camp are fasting for Ramadan. On the other side of our family, their cousins are doing Passover cleaning.
Forat Discovers the Truth about the Tooth Fairy
I enjoyed cultivating the Tooth Fairy as a heroine. Forat deals with so many grown-up issues – I wanted her to retain some childhood magic.
Winning a Literary Prize, Reclaiming the Hebrew Language
The Israeli Minister of Culture gave me a Hebrew literature prize. I’m grateful. And trying to reclaim Hebrew from those who use it to oppress.
After two years of evasion, COVID caught up with our family
We turned our lives upside down trying to evade the coronavirus. It finally arrived in a weakened form, leaving us in maddening, beautiful isolation together.
When is it OK to teach children about inequality and oppression?
Children are aware of stratification by gender and ethnicity. They notice who works in preschools, who their parents’ bosses are, and who cleans public toilets.
In the US, Neighbors Want Our Kids to Be Seen and Not Heard
“Do you think one of the neighbors would try to hurt the children?” Osama asked, trying to decipher the societal codes that surprised us both.
Missing Ramallah, Managing Sibling Rivalry
“Ima, tell me a story about a lion that eats Adam,” Forat asked me. She still feels betrayed that I gave birth to her competition.